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1. My kids play well together. They love each other. That doesn't mean we don't have our moments. I'll have to tell Lexi not to tease Dallin & I'll have to tell Dallin not to pull Lexi's hair, but to be fair, siblings are awesome.


2. Lexi loves the snow. Dallin was sleeping and still recovering from his illness so I didn't want him outside, plus I hate the cold, but she was begging. So I helped her get all snowed up and watched her from the window as best I could. I was just waiting for someone to come report my child for playing in the front yard alone, but only my neighbor showed some concern. She also dresses herself these days. Sometimes I try to redirect, but sometimes it's entertaining to see what they come up with.
  

3. She got to attend her 2nd birthday party. They went to outer space and she had so much fun! I love seeing kids learn and experience new things. It's the best part of parenthood. She is very sweet with these two 4 year olds who are also so so precious. And everyone loves an excuse for cupcakes, frosting first. My least favorite thing is watching kids go crazy opening presents. I've turned very passionate into my idea of minimal is better.

 

4. Dallin finally got rid of his old man look. Well, kinda. Dad decided to give him his first haircut (after months of begging me). I finally agreed and told him he was right, it looks so much better with the sides more even. I'm dying for his hair to grow out more. 


5. The ward Christmas party wasn't as stressful as imagined (up until I had to play elf) and was actually pretty successful as the ward missionaries were in charge. I guess it was my idea to have Santa read a story to the kids, but it got turned into "with" the kids while the elf helper read and then the elf helper couldn't come, so then there is just me in a hat too small with a grinch attitude. But I read The Three Trees and hopefully the story of Christ permeated even the biggest grinch or greedy child. Dallin also got to see Santa for the first time; although tired, we can say it happened. Lexi just wished for the candy cane he was giving out. I don't think she understands yet, but I'll take it. Don't worry about asking again Santa...
 




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