I had just talked to Mr Smith a few nights before that Lexi would love to ride a horse and asked if he knew anyone that could give her a chance to ride. Little did we realize, one of his physicians had a neighbor with horses. We went to their summer party expecting goats and pigs, but got surprised with a horse ride! I was so excited she got her chance. She was doing her usual non-listening run around exploration in a new, over-stimulated environment, but when we asked if she wanted to follow us to ride a horse, she lit up. I could have seen her all talk until she sat on the horse by herself, but she did it! She was just soaking it all in. She had a chance to walk around on two horses and she was completely calm both times. She was so filthy from that night, even laid down in the dirt to be next to the family dog. But it was a good night for making dreams come true. Even the goats liked her.
My 1-1 days are shortly coming to an end with my oldest who decided to have more time with me and her youngest sibling this past year & I'll forever be grateful for that. I'm never ready for them to grow up and give most their time & attention to everyone else. Again, we are excited for another phase & this time she gets to be the big kid coming back with more rest & confidence to wrap up her middle school years going part-time for 8th grade. Will busy work burn out still be a concern? Will "learning" in a noisy & crude environment still be a concern? Will losing more of her childhood still be a concern? Yes, yes and yes. However, she knows how to choose good friends, she knows how to work hard, and she knows she enjoys structure & peer competition coming from outside the home. I don't know if she'll push herself to participate more in sports, or find new opportunities elsewhere, but that's the blessings of this life - there are al...



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